Starting Over. Why I Cut My Hair

We’ve all seen it before. A woman going through a life altering moment takes a pair of scissors, or clippers, and cuts off her hair. It’s symbolic of a new beginning. Shedding the past and setting a new path for a brighter tomorrow. One example, which sticks out the most for me, is Angela Bassett’s character in Waiting to Exhale. A real life example would be Britney Spears during her Blackout phase. 2017 is my year to make a life altering move by shedding the past 4 years and restarting my natural hair journey.img_0540

So why now? Well, a lot has happened in the past 4 years. I finished my degree, got married, and lost loved ones. I had a miscarriage, lost jobs, and had to move because the new owners of my apartment wanted to move their family into the units. I also sold my artwork, flourished in content creation and freelance graphic design, hosted a plus size fashion show, collaborated with Youtubers I admire, and reached my 1000 subscriber milestone. I’m grateful for all of it, the good and the bad/sad, but I’m also ready to let go of that which may be holding me back or weighing me down in some way.

I’m someone who is impulsive, but not without thought, if that makes sense. I’ve been thinking about cutting my hair for a long time now. Usually the cure for my cutting fever would be a simple trim and shape of my fro. But lately, I have felt like I needed to break free of my hair. And as I resolve to take better care of my skin this year, and my body through weaning myself off of processed food, sugar, dairy, and gluten, I figured why not also restart my natural hair journey? It felt to good to shed the past 4 years and start fresh. My hair will grow back, and maybe better than before. Maybe I have learned enough to care for my hair in a way that will allow it to truly flourish. Maybe my growth will surpass the last 4 years. Who knows?! We’ll just have to wait and see.

Have any of you cut your hair as a way of starting over or shedding your past? Comment and let me know. I’d love to have a conversation about this. In the meantime, check out my Facebook Live video below. Don’t forget to subscribe to my secondary Youtube channel where I upload my Snapchat stories and occasional Facebook videos.

Published by Vikeejeah

Vikeejeah is a beauty blogger and Youtube beauty guru with a love for high end cosmetics. Her focus in on women of color, and the cosmetics best suited for their skin tones. Vikee is also a contributor for Lisa a la Mode.

4 thoughts on “Starting Over. Why I Cut My Hair

  1. YAS GIRL! I love the cut! I followed your FB link to get to this page so I could see the cutting video. And I also love the blog! Same name as mine! I’m loving it for real and I TOTALLY understand having to start new.

    Cutting your hair is like starting the clock over. I fully get it. Maybe all too much. But I totally understand. I’m sort of on the same journey. I just took out my weave! Hahaha!!! Just starting brand new! 2017 is going to be amazing. I can already tell.

    Oh and with the hair knowledge you have now, it definitely won’t take 4 years for your hair to grow back. I’m honestly thinking 2.5. But we’ll see!

    Good luck with everything. I love you! I am your biggest FAN!! HELLO!!!!! 🙂

    1. Hey Ashley! Thanks for coming thru, sis. There’s something about 2017 that has many people wanting to start anew. Maybe more so than most years. I’ll have a more formal video about this on my Youtube channel later this week. Thank you again for coming thru and supporting my blog. Much love, always – xoxo

  2. Girllll, I know the feeling of cutting the hair to restart or new beginnings. Sorry, for your loses. I’m overweight also and my doctor have told me I’m borderline diabetic and better start changing me eating habits and exercise so, I’ll be joining you with a lose weight journey- it’s hard. For skin care, you may like to try 20%vitamin C + vitamin E + Ferulic Acid by TIMELESSHA.COM is about $25.00 it will help with even out your skin tone but, you must use sunscreen every day, I’ve used them for years. Also, Orgainc Rose Hip Oil is very good for clearing skin tone. Keep pushing forward and I’ll be seeing you in your next YouTube Video.

    1. thank you so much. Yes, we can do this together! Selfcare is the theme of 2017 and you and I are going to look and feel amazing by 2018! Thank you for the links I will be happy to check out that skin care, especially for the price!

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